common sense

"It hurts that your closest family member says that "You should do something about your snob face. Instead of that, i really hope that people would accept me for who I am."

I did the "ask me anything" on instagram and I received this.

Here's my view. Firstly, I am sorry that you had to encounter that. That is the meanest thing someone could ever say to you. To anyone. To me, I really don't get it why people have the audacity to comment on someone's physical. I mean, we were created by Him, the same God. He created us beautifully, fairly. Only humans like to compare this and that. Let's start from there.

It is subjective, babes. One person can say your face as snob, one person can say your face is pretty. different interpretation, different view and different opinions. Its just that to me, I would never give my opinion on someone's face because umm?? Some opinion is best to be kept to yourself??? You don't go around saying things about peoples' insecurities?? Common sense??

Here, don't let people dictate what and how you should feel about yourself. As long as you know what you portray to the public is not a sin. I mean, you don’t proudly commit sins?? Other than that, being pretty do not help the world to be a better place pun. Instead, be kind to one another and be nice really do help. This is #random. But as a godmother of two, I always focus on their behaviors development. instead of "semoga membesar jadi cantik", I really wish they "membesar jadi baik".

Our world is so full of hate and hostility already, watch your mouth and speak good words. That will help so much.

If you think your life is at any less than the others, try to sit and ponder what you have rather than what you don't have. The next time the no-common-sense-people tell you about your physical or insecurities, remember, you worth so much more. You're amazing, just the way you are.

Yours truly,

Laila Rafaee.

10:20PM

Subang Jaya.